I understand what it is you are saying, but I have had the same realizations before I ever reading any books on the subject. The book I am recommending, however, is because the subject matter is so well expressed by the author in a manner that I don’t have the skill to do myself. The writer describes actual scientific evidence that completely dismantles the ideas of space and time.
So, what is it that you were asking?
Well, maybe it was about space and time. I can’t quite remember. Just know this… the thing you are thinking about space is the same thing as space. And, the metric that you use to measure time is your own mind.
Read “Beyond Biocentrism.”